Friday, July 24, 2009

Oucccccccccccchhhhhhhhh!!!

TRUST EACH OTHER is the KEY to a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

It's been a while that I haven't updated my blog due to some important tasks.

At 41, I can't hide it but I am very uncomfortable with my PMS. There are tantrums due to unstable emotions and some backaches, headaches and heartaches! http://www.marilynglenville.com/

At this period of time, I feel like a paranoid thinking about my husband who is so far away. I can't help but think that perhaps he goes out with his friends at work having 2 bottles of beer somewhere else....Perhaps in a bar? Perhaps in a night spot? Perhaps in a Resort? ....My feelings and thoughts are uncontrollable and I begin to text a message to my husband interrogating him like a Police Officer! OMG!...What am I doing??? I know I am hurting him...but I don't know why I am doing this!!!

I did some research and now I understand the reason why. I am trying to prepare myself at least 10 days prior to my monthly cycle. My sister in-law, gave me some advice to take Vit B complex. I also did some pampering of myself...I went to the hairdresser....I color my hair for a new look...and I begin to do something in trimming down....MY HUSBAND REMINDS ME TO TRUST HIM FOR THE SAKE OF OUR FAMILY... (He swears he is not doing a thing to hurt me)

I humbly asked sorry ...and recently, I am glad there is an improvement in me....I sensed it and I can feel it!

Thursday, July 2, 2009

My thoughts on Michael Jackson and how my family liked his music

MJ is a very unique artist...he is so rare and I like most of his music. He showed great concern to the world, children and other people. His contribution to the world is undying! People from different ages, races and status love his music. MJ's music will not perish...it will live forever from one generation to the next.

My son's favorite song is "Heal the world", my daughter's "You are not alone", mine are "Billy Jean", "Man in the Mirror", "They don't care about us" to name a few. My husband likes "We are the world" and my parents like his Jackson 5 Album with the hit songs "Ben" and "I'll be there". I remember when my son was only one year old, he would dance like crazy each time I played the music "Bad" and his favorite lyric that time was "awwww!" What can you expect from a toddler? hehehe

Knowing that MJ started singing at the age of 5, he missed a normal childhood life. He was at his very tender age when he became a superstar.

My heart softens and my eyes begin to shed tears when I remember how difficult and so demanding his life was. He became so rich with material things but he never lived a normal life just the way we do.

Most people are fanatics of MJ. Many people love his music but there are also people who see the different side of MJ's life and hated him so much. But I don't care! Only God knows and only God will pass the judgment on him. Who's perfect in this world, anyway?

When I watched his video on "We are the world" recording session, Michael's Voice was like an angel...it's very light, very soft, so cool like a breeze touching the gentle cheek of a baby. Very soothing and heavenly! And look at him, he's so polite so courteous, full of patience and very respectful. I saw a very calm person and there's so much humility in him.

MJ was an endangered specie like Elvis Presley. And now they became extinct!
But only their flesh vanished away. His body came from dust and to dust it shall return!

But....definitely, Michael Jackson's music will live forever!

Billy Jean MJ

Friday, June 19, 2009

This song is dedicated to all FATHERS in the world especially to my Father, Arsenio and my Husband!, Ricardo!

SONGS FOR FATHERS' DAY

SONGS FOR DADS ON FATHERS’ DAY
Pick Your Choice!
1. Father and Son - Cat Stevens
2. Father and Daughter - Paul Simon
3. Dance With My Father - Luther Vandross
4. Papa Can You Hear Me? - Barbra Streisand
5. Daddy's Little Girl - Karla Bonoff
6. Just The Two Of Us - Will Smith
7. Seein' My Father In Me - Paul Overstreet
8. Butterfly Kisses - Bob Carlisle
9. Fathers' Day - Lady Clown

Compiled by Espie Estrella (Any relation to my PM, Ms. Van?)

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY TO MY HUSBAND

My husband is my other HERO next to my father!

Probably, my husband allocated 95% of his time at work and 5% for the family. Yet...we all understand him because we always LOVE him and MISS him so much!!!

Each time he availed of his Holiday vacation on Christmas and New Year, we all feel heaven when he is HOME!

All his 47 years were spent in school and work! He is a workaholic kind of man but he never missed praying everyday especially to his dear Patron Sto. NiƱo de Cebu. He never missed calling or sending text messages even when he is out in the mountains of Panay! My husband is the best man I knew. He carries with him his prayer book wherever he goes and I know he showed so much care and respect to his very old holy book.

Out of his love for work, he experienced one horrible moment in his life when he was kidnapped by the rebels somewhere in the mountains of Mindanao area. Thanks GOD he was released after giving the demands of the rebels from his office.

My husband is a SURVIVOR!!!

Indeed he is a survivor. He also survived from two consecutive tragedies being a widower not just once but twice! (Both died of cancer. His first wife passed away (she had breast cancer)after five years of their marriage leaving him a son, a daughter and twins. His second wife (the younger sister of his first wife, died of lung cancer after eight years of their married life. It was the rightful choice of his parents-in-law to arrange the marriage between him and the younger sister of his first wife to take care of the kids very well being a Registered Nurse rather than marrying someone with no relation to the children would be hard).

Sometimes, I am contemplating..."Lord is this Your way of giving me my soul mate and one true love?" He is the perfect partner for me because he is the missing piece of puzzle in my life after 14 years of living as a single parent with my two kids (my first marriage was declared by our court null and void) I am a survivor too!

Well, well, well...Mr. Survivor met his Ms Survivor and both lived happily ever after!

HAPPY FATHERS' DAY DADI!!! WE LOVE U SO MUCH! GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS!